18 year old dating a 15 year old legal
I met this guy in my one of my nursing classes in college and he's literally the man of my dreams.However, I feel as if I'm too young for him and feel he would be better off with someone his age.
Seen too many take advantage of younger girls, myself included when I was that age.
I've began messaging and after the usual small talk and flirtatious banter she told me she was actually 16 and not 19 as her profile had said. I know guys with the same 5 year gap and they had no worries doing it.
I didn't said its a little weird but we continued talking, I had no intentions of taking things further. She shares almost every view I have on a political and philosophical level as well as a smiliar taste in music (mine is super obscure) as well as art and film. I know people who were 25 and 16 and have been going strong for a few years now but it still feels weird and I can't decide what to do.
On the other hand if it was a 17 y/o and 21 y/o who were both working in retail full time together I'd find it less weird. even if you think she seems "mature for her age" (a classic line from creeps who think making a move on young teens is acceptable)... Saying she's mature for a 16 year old doesn't make her an adult!
She is still of school age and you're old enough to be a graduate with a full time job... If you go through with it you will get a lot of adversity from people thinking you're a creep and tbh I wouldn't blame them. I was with a 16 year old at 21 and while i would probably not repeat the experience i can say that social norms had nothing to do with it (she was batcrap crazy). I've began messaging and after the usual small talk and flirtatious banter she told me she was actually 16 and not 19 as her profile had said.
She added me on Facebook and from there we have been chatting a lot. I definitely want to keep her in my life even if just as a friend but I would prefer to be intimate.