Dating advice for guys in college
Rather than hating it and pitying yourself, recognise this is the crucible that will shape your future. If you can learn to be emotionally resilient, to make the best of a bad time and to not give up, you’ll have something that will serve you well your entire life – the ability to overcome hardship.
They’ll pressure you to stay in that job you don’t like because it’s stable.
That, along with the huge culture shock completely changed who I was as a person, to the point where the people that have known be for a long time would probably recognise me as before army and after army Pete.
Being comfortable in your own skin and having your own mind is actually a lot more rare than you might think, and is incredibly liberating.
Experiences are what make life worth living, not material things.
If you have things you want to do or try, get out and do them!Learning is generally pretty haphazard for most people, because (ironically) they weren’t taught how to learn in school. When you master things and become a subject matter expert, that’s usually when you level up in your career and start looking at serious money and good working conditions.