Dating advice for nerds
Sure, she may like that facade, but I sure hope you like keeping up such a thing for years on end. You didn't say, but I'm going to keep going. You've given up what you do so you can maybe get laid, and get married, as if those are the only next steps.How would you like it if, should you got a girlfriend, she revealed to you (after several months/years of being together) that she was a die hard dancer for years before you two had been together. I'm going to repeat myself here: Getting a girlfriend will not make your life better. Life is about understanding yourself, then getting a companion.Like I said, most of my nerdy interests are just things i've found to fill time and get away from reality for a few hours a week because of my bigger depression problems Also, like i said in the title, I only want to hear from "Non-nerd" girls. I'm a total geek yet I'm still in training to be an underwear model, I highly doubt you'd tell me my interests make me "less of a woman" just because when I stick the robe back on I'm more interesting in chilling out with an atari flashback than looking for shoes.
Should you treat your hobby of Dn D any differently than someone should treat their hobby of watching football? Getting a girlfriend will not fix these things, as a relationship is not a magic bandaid. There are no more average girls in america I figured I could go to japan or korea or something, and find a below average looking girl, because I even find ugly Asian girls hot, and she would fall head over heels for me and we could both be sooo happy.
(Don't ask)Maybe I'm pissing you off and you don't want to answer me this, but I am asking. Before getting with a girl, sort out your own delusions and ridiculous mindsets and problems because otherwise you're just going to be miserable, end up in a miserable relationship and hurt people. I have a Magic deck (sweet ass artifact deck), roleplay on occasion, and still mix with the cool kids, who think I'm cooler I know I'm not a girl or a non-nerd but... Do you have any hobbies outside of Dn D, Magic and Comic Books? I have hobbies, that doesn't cause an issue with dating.