Online dating not working for me
I read what I purchased from you faithfully and followed everything you said.
I am a 36-year-old East Indian woman living in New York City. This is incredibly frustrating, especially after I checked your blog and saw that in a question you asked about response rate, ALL these women said that they got at least 50-60% response rate.
In reality, failure is the default setting in dating.
I don’t know where you pulled up that women get a 60% response rate — maybe one of my customer testimonials — but the reason I used it is because it’s unusual and impressive.
Just because I got a personal trainer at the gym doesn’t mean I’m going to be on the cover of Men’s Health.
And what they observed is that yes, in fact, the percentage response that Indian women get from white men is less than they’ll get from men of all other races.
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The point is, Mellie, you’re dealing with men who are at the top of the dating totem pole — 35-40 year old cute, successful guys in New York City.
It’s a seller’s market and they can afford to be choosy.4. It’s not that you’re wrong for wishing that things came a little bit easier; it’s that you’re hoping for a different reality, which generally is not a good use of your time.Learn more about how Oath collects and uses data and how our partners collect and use data.